Showing posts with label Coming of age. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Coming of age. Show all posts

30 South African men killed in ritual circumcision


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 AFP    Published July 07, 2013
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Botched circumcisions killed 30 young men and landed almost 300 more in hospital during traditional initiation rites in a South African province, the health department said Sunday.
The 30 deaths in rural Eastern Cape province occurred during the annual season when young males undergo a rite of passage into manhood.
Ten other youths were hospitalized after being rescued from a forest on Sunday, said provincial health department spokesman Sizwe Kupelo in a statement.
"The ten initiates' private parts are rotten. They are badly damaged. Their condition is scary," he said.
A further 293 young men were undergoing hospital treatment for dehydration, gangrene and septic wounds, Kupelo added.
Some had lost their genitals.
Teenagers from ethnic Xhosa, Sotho and Ndebele groups typically spend around a month in secluded bush or mountains areas for their initiation to manhood.
This includes a circumcision as well as lessons on masculine courage and discipline.
Traditional surgeons perform the procedure in the bush, sometimes with unsterilised instruments or lacking in technique.
Botched circumcisions leading to penis amputations and deaths are an annual tragedy.
In May around 34 deaths in two other provinces were reported.
The ruling African National Congress said Sunday it was "distressed" over the latest deaths.
It called for basic medical training of the traditional surgeons to render "an entrenched and necessary part of our cultural fabric" safer.

Coming of age in the UK



A reader in the UK just sent me a story of his awakening sexuality at age 12. Now over the age of 50, he also sent me a delightful picture collection of his uncut dick, which will you see following his narrative:

"I have just found your blog - it seems we have a number of things in common!

I too am uncut (infinitely better, I'm sure). I was also attracted to the male anatomy whilst at school - probably as a result of going on a camping trip at the age of 12 and sharing a small tent with a boy who was a year older than me and who started playing with himself openly in the tent. His equipment was so much bigger than mine, and he could probably see I was amazed - he got me to give him a hand job, but he had to show me what to do as I had never done it before; I was really innocent! He did feel so different to me as he was much thicker and of course quite a bit longer and I was just stunned by these differences which had never really occurred to me before.

Then that night when we were in our sleeping bags he put his hand over and felt all down my body until he got to you know where - I let him do it as it was just the most amazing sensation. I had no hair and he seemed to enjoy that. He started to wank me but after a while I had a pain in my groin and had to get him to stop - it seems I was not ready to climax. But the feeling up to then had been something else and of course after that I was at it all the time! It was about another 6 months before I first came. He and I met up a few times after that but we were young and didn't do much more than watch each other. Then after another year we moved house and I went to a different school - but after that I was always looking at the other boys in the showers. Like you I felt very inferior as I was small and thin - and still am. But I do have a very long skin - it continues to cover my glans even when fully erect. I have no need of your Cum Rag, as I can just stretch my skin, holding the end tight and it will contain everything in it a bit like a condom - it's all very clean and tidy!

Like you I had no real concept of actually being gay. I knew I fancied boys, but I liked girls too. I married and have two children; I am now divorced. I eventually concluded I was most likely bi since the female anatomy can also turn me well on, especially if shaved. But I have only had sex with just two women - my wife obviously, and one other lady with whom I had a short relationship after my divorce - she has recently contacted me to ask if we could get back together, and I'm happy to do that.

Anyway, thanks for the blog."




















And to all you readers, send me your story and your pictures and you may see it right here!